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The internet dating platform is also good news for anyone who struggles with confidence or having a positive self-image. How flattering is it when you find out that someone has already liked your profile or someone you are interested in matches with you? It’s just enough ego boost to give the users enough self confidence to send that first message, allowing the user to have an opportunity to get to know the amazing qualities you have that would never get discovered if that person saw your nervous ‘deer in the headlights’ look as they approached you in the bar, gym, or at your local coffee shop. It’s another advantage of the online dating world; you know who is initially interested, so you can save your moves for the right people. It also helps minimize the awkward flirting and hit-ons by people you would never be attracted to or interested in because most online dating platforms only allow you to interact with other users that you have indicated you are interested in. No more awkward conversations, taking fake urgent calls, or running to the bathroom to avoid unsolicited advances!

Finding love online is a convenient, easy, and modern way to navigate the complicated social scene. Now more than ever it is challenging to meet someone in person because of the high demands of careers and work. Surveys show that most people met their significant other in the workplace, and this can be challenging, especially if you are in a profession that is highly independent, doesn’t allow for much interpersonal interaction, or is specifically single-gender dominate. I know my friends in nursing have a challenging time meeting guys in the workplace because it has historically been a female-dominated profession, though this may be good news for hetero male nurses. The best Russian dating sites can be free when you look out for advice. It can also be uncomfortable and risky to try to meet someone in the workplace as one of you may end up getting a promotion and now you’re in an uncomfortable power dynamic. Similarly, many workplaces implement no dating policies for their employees as well, which comes with many positive and negative benefits. So if you can’t meet someone where you spend the majority of your day, and the club/bar/nightlife scene isn’t the place you want to meet someone, then online dating may be a great alternate to find someone with the same values and interests of you. The most basic information is available to internet dating users which streamlines the process and eliminates some of the most frustrating aspects of mixing and mingling.

Even still, the online community poses one of the same issues as trying to date in real life: there are many fish in the sea. So how can you be successful in finding love on the internet? There are some tricks and tips we have developed to help you make the most of your online dating experience so you can find a good match without the hassle or disappointment

Be yourself

This may seem obvious in lieu of catfish and exposure culture. However, there is a significant and easy temptation when developing your online dating profile to showcase the absolute best parts of yourself, which in many ways is a great thing to do! However, you want to also be realistic in your approach. Think about it: posting your hottest photo is a great idea because you want to show how attractive you are, right? Yes, but also show who you really are. What do you look like most of the time? And ditch some of the Snapchat filters. We know you look cute as a puppy, but other users would love to see what you really look like. If someone’s first picture is heavily filtered, I automatically move on. Confidence is sexy! Show yourself as you are and own it!

Appearances aside, utilize your bio to give a quick sneak peek into your world. Do you spend most evenings in the gym? Talk about it! Do you work weird, alternating shifts? Be honest about them. Have kids? Pets? All kinds of information can be helpful when trying to find the ‘right’ person. Post your zodiac sign if you’re into that kind of thing too. Tell us more about yourself. Who are you beyond your profile pictures? It’s helpful to other users who are looking at your photos are trying to picture themselves with you, and the more information in your bio, the faster you can skip past the generic first questions because that person already knows that information about it. It can help streamline the ‘will this work out’ process to. For example, there have been many times I have been messaging someone only to find out after a great first date that they are horrifically allergic to cats, meaning that they could never come over to my place. That’s an issue and now this won’t work out. And this can be avoided by disclosing pets and other important information. Similarly, there are a lot of people out there who will not date someone with children, or there are people who would only date someone with children.

The thing about internet dating is: it is what it is. You are navigating through people who are what they are, and people will not change on major beliefs and values they hold just because you matched and have beautiful and charming pictures posted. Just be realistic about yourself. Do you want to spend a whole lot of time talking to someone and beginning the dating process only to disclose something later that is a complete and total deal breaker? Not being honest and realistic about yourself and your life is a primary reason that relationships with people you met online don’t work out.

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